What happens when you hear of another couple this year that is divorcing? A couple that from the outside held hands, said sweet things and took adventures together. A couple whose marriage you would have said you admired and wanted to replicate. What does that mean? For the 485th time it means that no one knows what's within the marriage other than the two people in it. That's it. I'm saddened to see so many couples whose love and patience have withered. I'm also sad to know that what's been going on inside has been painful and trying. This breaking of a bond is neither good or bad. It could be both. Right now it's painful and sad. Marriage to me is one of those things that I admire endurance. It's certainly not easy. Take patience, practiced kindness, listening when it's the last thing you possibly want to do and choosing to be together more than you want to run. It is the joining of lives into one household, into decisions, often into a fa